Doers Not Viewers

I once had a friend tell me, “I’d rather play football than watch football.” His reasoning was key, “Why would I want to watch someone else get into shape when I could be doing it?” He wanted to be a doer, not a viewer.

I was thinking about this idea recently as we continue construction on our house. In home construction, there are those who sprint, those who run a marathon, and those who take a long adventurous trail hike. We are the latter. We have been building on our house for several years. There are periods in our building process when we pause to spend time looking at Fine Home Building magazines, read design books, go to Lowes, or watch HGTV to get ideas of how we want to do something. During that time we become what I think of as information gatherers. In that case, I would say that the viewing is actually doing something. It’s training our minds, giving us data we can use, teaching us how and sometimes motivating us toward that goal to which we are striving.

An individual ceases being an information gatherer and moves to viewer when they stop doing.

I can apply this to my life as a Christian too. Jesus calls us to “Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit” (Matthew 28:19). I have been given an awesome opportunity as a believer to do something. I have been called to go out and make disciples! That’s pretty exciting. And God calls me to “do” other things too. He tells me to forgive, seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, be holy because He is holy, honor my father and mother, and so much more. All of those things are “doing.”

In the process of the doing, I am also called to assemble together with other believers. God gives me opportunities to fellowship, to be encouraged, to learn so that I might better do. I like to look at that fellowship time as my information gathering time. I have the opportunity to listen to others teach me, hear how they are doing in their journey and gain motivation for the journey. Reading God’s Word is also a great time to gather information. It also brings me to the throne of God where I might allow Him to speak directly to me and build me up in Christ.

Then I can do. Then I can go therefore and make disciples… I can forgive, love others, build others up in Christ, honor my parents, seek His kingdom… and I am never alone in the doing. I am on God’s team. He is with me the whole way!

To my friend who could not see the value in watching a football game I would challenge him to consider how watching the game helps him learn the moves, see others succeed and even stumble. By viewing, a person becomes aware of the game. Sometimes it is all right to stop building the house and read a few books, magazines, explore the lighting department at Lowes, and watch HGTV, as long as we don’t stop there. We need to do. We need to put into practice the information we’ve been gathering.

Christians, we benefit greatly from our fellowship time! We learn how others succeed and even stumble. We see areas of our lives where we need to grow. We become refreshed for the doing. We desperately need our time alone with God, allowing Him to teach us from His Word and refresh us by His Spirit. Then we can be better prepared to do.

This is the day which the LORD has made

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“This is the day which the LORD has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.” Psalm 118:24.
It’s an easy verse to remember. Less than 20 words. And yet, those twenty words are packed with meaning. God makes an incredible statement and two commands in that little verse.
His statement, while obvious, isn’t always easy to remember. God made each day. Every morning that I wake up is a morning God made… it belongs to Him. Every afternoon is an afternoon God made… it belongs to Him. You get the point.

Within that day, which the LORD has made, He has given us two commands. First: rejoice. Second: Be glad in it.

I’ll be honest, some mornings I wake up with a deep sigh, somewhat overwhelmed with all I have to do, wondering how in the world I’m going to get it all done, and simply put… I’m not rejoicing and not real glad. It’s then I have to put my morning into perspective. I know, from personal experience, that when I rejoice – when I take the time to praise my Heavenly Father for His many blessings and rejoice in His love for me, that it drastically changes my perspective for the day. I also know that when I make a choice to be glad in the day, I’ve determined to be a cup half full kind of person and I end up having a full cup kinda day.

That said, I was thinking about how the knowledge that each day is from God and that we are called to rejoice and be glad in it affects my family. When my children see me rejoicing and giving thanks to my Father, it affects them. For one, it’s an example to them. Secondly, they enjoy me a lot more when I’ve taken the time to rejoice in my Father’s love for me. I’m a better parent when I’ve put my day in perspective.

As a believer, when I’ve put my day in its proper perspective, I can use it to bring God glory. No matter what I’ve got planned for that day, no matter what day of the week it is, when I remember that my day belongs to God – it affects how I use it.

So, how do I use my day? God gives us clear direction in His Word as to how He wants us to live our day. He tells us to train up our children in the way they should go so that when they are old they will not depart from it, He tells us to love one another, He tells us to encourage one another, He tells us to let our lights so shine before men that they might see our Father in heaven, He tells us to forgive, He tells us to hide His Word in our hearts… His Word is loaded with ways He wants us to spend the day He has made.

As we look around and see His creation all around us, let us remember that this day belongs to Him and He has a plan for it.

Communication 101

“She doesn’t like me.”

“He doesn’t understand me.”

“We used to be so close – but we never talk anymore.”

“She doesn’t care.”

We’ve all heard those lines before. Sometimes we’ve heard it from our children. Sometimes we’ve heard it from our friends. Other times, we’ve said it ourselves. Even the most self confident, independent and logical minded person has at some point in their lives felt either misunderstood, lonely, or uncared for.

Of course, we have a constant reminder from God’s word that He loves us, He understands, He is always with us and He cares. Without that hope it would be all the more difficult to deal with those feelings and thoughts. “If God is with us, who can be against us?”

But even God understands that those feelings arise between human beings and cause us discouragement. The wonderful thing is that God even gives us guidelines to dealing with those situations.

Communication is essential in the Christian life. It is vital to our own relationship with God and it is vital to our relationships with others. What kind of relationship with God would we have if we never talked to Him, if we never read His word, or if we never took the time to be still and know He is God? Without communication there is no relationship.

In the Garden, when Adam and Eve sinned against God by eating from the tree He instructed them not to eat from, their first reaction was to hide from God – close themselves off from Him, avoid Him, put up a wall. Even though it was they who sinned against God, they put up the wall.

When there is a wall between ourselves and God, there is no communication. In order to break down that wall we must go to Him and confess our sins and then we can receive His forgiveness and the relationship is healed. Confession is communication.

After Adam pulled away from God, God called out to Adam. He communicated with him. It was only after they communicated that there was resolution and healing.

When feelings arise that we are misunderstood, unliked, or when we sense a distance arising in a previously healthy relationship, chances are it is a communication issue.

In John 17 we find Jesus praying in the garden of Gethsemane. I have always found joy in this passage of scripture because not only did Jesus pray for those who were living at the time – but Jesus prayed for believers of the future – us. In verse 20-21 Jesus said, “I do not ask on behalf of these alone, but for those also who believe in Me through their word; that they may all be one; even as You, Father, are in Me and I in You, that they also may be in Us, so that the world may believe that You sent Me.”

Jesus prayed specifically for us that we would be one. Ironic that it was in a garden where Adam and Eve pulled away from God and it is in a garden where Jesus prays for connection. Jesus desires for us to be one. He says that He desires for us to be one that we may also be one in Him and so that the world may believe that God sent Jesus.

It is important to our walk with God that we be at peace with our brothers and sisters in Christ. We are called to forgive one another. “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you.” Ephesians 4:32.

When Christians are one with one another it communicates something powerful to the world. It communicates a message about Christ that can help the world believe in Him.

It is important to communicate. The Bible is full of examples of God communicating with us. This example is instrumental to restoration in our relationships with others.

“She doesn’t like me.” …have you tried talking to her?

“He doesn’t understand me.” …have you tried talking to him?

“We used to be so close – but we never talk anymore.” …so talk.

“She doesn’t care.” …have you talked to her about it? Told her how you feel?

Of course, I understand, there are those who in their own hurt, stubbornness or rejection of God’s truth, will not respond to our attempts at communicating with them. Sometimes they are not ready. Sometimes they are not in a right place with God. In those situations we can also learn from Jesus by what He showed us. Pray for them.

I often tell teens that if there is someone in their lives who either does not like them or they have conflict with, and that person won’t work it out – to pray for the person. I challenge them to thank God for five things about that person every day. It can be a difficult thing to do – but it works. If you can’t communicate with the person about the issue – communicate to God about the person.